LGBTQ+
stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning and “plus,” which represents other sexual identities including pansexual, asexual and omnisexual. It’s the accepted and inclusive way to refer to the queer community, who can be grouped by one common theme: the fact they don’t identify as straight and/or cisgender.
Everyone is worthy of a healthy relationship, regardless of how they identify. It’s important to be aware that each relationship is unique because we are all unique people. To better understand the specific dynamics of a healthy relationship with someone who identifies as LGBTQ+, we should make it a priority to learn and respect their sexual identity and/or gender expression. The LGBTQ+ community has unique ways to distinguish if their relationships are healthy or not.
A few signs that you are in a healthy relationship:
You feel comfortable being yourself with your partner(s) and do not have to “tone down” your sexual identity.
Your partner(s) respects your autonomy to make the decision to disclose your sexual orientation and/or gender identity to different people at different times, when it feels best for you.
Your partner(s) never insists that you’re not a real lesbian, gay man, or trans person because you don’t do the stereotypical things that are expected of you.
You have the freedom to hang out with your friends, and do not have to get “permission” from your partner(s) beforehand.
Your partner(s) utilizes your appropriate pronouns, even when you are not around.
Your partner(s) respects your boundaries.